VOA健康报道 | 做家务的男人最性感

小白老师2016/01/20

一项发表于《家庭心理学杂志》的研究表明,男性参与家务劳动本身并不直接提升性生活频率或满意度,但当男性主观认为自己公平分担了家务时,夫妻双方的性生活更频繁且更令人满意。

关键要点

  • 研究发现,男性是否做家务与性生活频率无直接关联,关键在于双方对家务分配‘公平感’的感知。
  • 自认为公平承担家务的男性,其伴侣报告的性满意度更高,性生活也更频繁。
  • 该研究基于1338对德国伴侣的数据,追踪调查了一年时间。
  • 早期有研究称不做家务的男性性生活更多,但新研究通过实证数据反驳了这一观点。
  • 专家建议男性积极参与家务,不仅促进关系平等,也有助于提升亲密关系质量。

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From VOA Learning English, this is the Health & Lifestyle report.

Some men may think it is not their job to help with housework. They may think that it is a woman’s job to wash clothes or clean up after a meal.

But a new study shows these men may want to think again.

The study found that a man who helped around the house not only has more sex with his partner; he also has a really good sex life.

It is time to face facts.

Women find a man washing dishes very sexy.

And now there is scientific evidence to prove it.

A new study suggests that men who do their share of housework have better sex lives.

Matt Johnson is an assistant professor in the Department of Human Ecology at the University of Alberta in Canada. He remembered reading about an earlier study on housework. That study claimed that men who did little or no work at home had more sex.

Johnson told Medical News Online that this claim does not seem to ring true. He said it does not support his experience as a couple’s therapist. In that job, he provided advice to married couples and others on personal relationships.

So, Johnson helped organize the new study to re-investigate the relationship between dividing household duties and sex lives.

He and the other researchers examined information about 1,338 couples. These men and women were part of a German project on relationships.

For that project, researchers asked each male partner about the amount of housework they did. They asked the men what household chores they did, and whether the level of work was similar to that of their partner.

The researchers looked each partner’s sexual satisfaction and sexual activities rates one year later.

The results showed no link between the amount of housework a man did and a couple’s sex life. It was the idea of “fairness” that made the most difference.

The men who thought they did a fair part of the household chores had sex more often with their partner. And both partners reported their sex life being more satisfying.

So, men, get to work. Wash those dishes! Make the bed! The study did not ask why you are cleaning – just that you are cleaning.

Johnson and his colleagues reported their findings in the Journal of Family Psychology.

I’m Anna Matteo.


这里是美国之音慢速英语健康和生活方式报道。

一些男人可能认为家务活不是自己的分内之事,他们可能会认为洗衣服或餐后收拾是女人的工作。但是,一项新研究显示有这种想法的男人需要三思了。研究发现,帮忙做家务的男人不仅与伴侣的性生活更多,他的性生活也更加和谐。

那么,是时候面对事实了。女人认为男人洗碗的时候最性感。现如今有科学根据证实如此。新研究表明,男人分担家务生活更“性福”。

Matt Johnson是阿尔伯塔大学人类生态学系的助理教授,他记得曾读过早期关于家务的研究,该研究声称男人少做、甚至不做家务,有更多性生活。Johnson告诉“医学新闻在线”该说法似乎并不对。作为婚姻医疗师,他称该说法与他的经验相悖。工作中,他向已婚夫妻等就个人关系提供建议。

所以,Johnson协助组织新研究重新调查家务分配和性生活间的关系。他和其他调查人员调查了1338对夫妻的信息,这些男女还参与了德国一项关于人际关系的项目。

在该项目中,研究人员询问每个男伴侣曾做的家务,以及他们所做的家务是否和另一半所做的差不多。一年后研究人员分析了每对伴侣的的性满意度和性生活频率。

结果显示,男伴侣的家务配额和夫妻性生活并无关联,反倒是“公平”的概念成为了决定性因素。自认为做了相同份额家务的男人和伴侣的性生活更频繁,且伴侣都认为更“性福”。

所以,男人们快去做家务吧!洗碗!铺床!研究并没有调查你打扫的原因—既然你正在打扫。Johnson和他同事将研究发表于《家庭心理学》杂志上。

我是Anna Matteo。

常见问题

做家务真的能让男人更‘性感’吗?

研究显示,女性并不单纯因为男人做家务而觉得他性感,而是当男人公平分担家务时,双方关系更和谐,性生活更满意,从而产生‘性感’的感知。

这项研究的样本来自哪里?

研究数据来自德国一项关于人际关系的长期项目,共涉及1,338对异性伴侣。

为什么‘公平感’比实际做多少家务更重要?

研究发现,男性主观认为自己做了公平份额的家务,比实际家务量更能预测性生活的频率和满意度,说明心理感知在亲密关系中起关键作用。

这项研究发表在哪个期刊?

该研究由Matt Johnson及其同事完成,发表于美国心理学会旗下的《家庭心理学杂志》(Journal of Family Psychology)。

参考资料

Men’s Perceptions of Fairness in Housework and Sexual Satisfaction

Johnson, M., et al. (年份未明确). Journal of Family Psychology. 研究基于德国关系项目数据,探讨家务公平感与性满意度的关系。